Oh how I appreciate your unique perspective in this journey I am sharing with you. We recently took a trip to Hawaii which turned out far better than I thought and also more recently to Florida, a four day drive one way. Amazingly well done.
I agree with Pam. I held my breath knowing I have been in the same situation, kicking myself for not having thought ahead of a potentially scary situation. I jumped out of the car, in pouring rain, in an insanely busy Costco parking lot, leaving him to find a spot, while I "just run in and out again" looking for one specific thing. (it wasn't there) When I came back out, I realized the "stupidity" of what I had thoughtlessly done (because he was doing so well) and wondered, How will I ever find him? We had a new car on top of it, so new that I didn't know if I'd recognize it! As I stood in the rain berating myself, he came looking for me, having found a spot! We both got wet looking for the car that we couldn't easily identify except for the license plate.
Inger, I’m glad we found each other. It is oddly some comfort knowing I am not the only one who makes what, in retrospect, seem to be obvious errors in judgement. The thing is, it’s like a roulette wheel. Sometimes leaving Mr. J to his own devices allows him to shine. Other times, it makes my heart stop with dispair. What a roller coaster we are on!
Thank you, Susie. I appreciate your words and understanding. I have enjoyed KL many times. I always stayed by the towers before. This time, we were in Chinatown, which was like being in a completely different city!
I was holding my breath through that moment at the customs gate, Anne. Giving up travel is one of the hardest parts of this journey--I don't blame you for trying to hold onto it. You'll know when it's time to let go.
Crossing my fingers for you.❤️
Oh how I appreciate your unique perspective in this journey I am sharing with you. We recently took a trip to Hawaii which turned out far better than I thought and also more recently to Florida, a four day drive one way. Amazingly well done.
I agree with Pam. I held my breath knowing I have been in the same situation, kicking myself for not having thought ahead of a potentially scary situation. I jumped out of the car, in pouring rain, in an insanely busy Costco parking lot, leaving him to find a spot, while I "just run in and out again" looking for one specific thing. (it wasn't there) When I came back out, I realized the "stupidity" of what I had thoughtlessly done (because he was doing so well) and wondered, How will I ever find him? We had a new car on top of it, so new that I didn't know if I'd recognize it! As I stood in the rain berating myself, he came looking for me, having found a spot! We both got wet looking for the car that we couldn't easily identify except for the license plate.
One more trip? I think we'll try!
Inger, I’m glad we found each other. It is oddly some comfort knowing I am not the only one who makes what, in retrospect, seem to be obvious errors in judgement. The thing is, it’s like a roulette wheel. Sometimes leaving Mr. J to his own devices allows him to shine. Other times, it makes my heart stop with dispair. What a roller coaster we are on!
So good you’re creating new memories.
Terrifying process in customs tho.
So glad you have A, your truth teller, there beside you.
Yes, A has been a godsend. I'd like to think I learned something from the customs experience. Time will tell.
Keep going and writing! I can tell it helps you process. I've enjoyed your story and love that you're in KL — my old home. 🫶🏼
Thank you, Susie. I appreciate your words and understanding. I have enjoyed KL many times. I always stayed by the towers before. This time, we were in Chinatown, which was like being in a completely different city!
Nice! I love the Four Points Sheraton in Chinatown. Did you see it?
I was holding my breath through that moment at the customs gate, Anne. Giving up travel is one of the hardest parts of this journey--I don't blame you for trying to hold onto it. You'll know when it's time to let go.
Thank you, @Pam Johnston, for continuing to see me. I appreciate your wisdom and insights, and knowing I am not the first to walk this path.